Somatic Sex Education
w/ Jaiden Love
What is SSE & how I work
Somatic Sex Education
& Sexological Bodywork
Somatic sex education and Sexological Bodywork is an experiential, body-based education about embodiment, pelvic health, sex, and intimacy. Sessions may include coaching, somatic practices, bodywork and touch, and suggestions for home practices.
I use a variety of modalities including Reiki, breath-work, boundary setting and consent exercises. I also use trauma-informed touch for scar remediation work and anatomy mapping for sensitivity and pleasure. Both of these modalities may turn into Dearmouring sessions if/when the client would like to do deeper healing work.
Some reasons to work with a Somatic Sex Educator:
Getting in touch with your authentic yes & no
Support on their sexual healing Journey
Body/Pleasure mapping
Explore consent, boundaries and communication in intimate relationships
Scar tissue work
*Somatic sex education is not a sexual service and practitioners do not act as surrogate partners. We remain clothed and the touching in our sessions (when and if this happens) is one-directional from practitioner to client. Students who want to learn interpersonal skills are welcome to bring their partners.
Become more aware
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Heal
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Experience more pleasure
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Feel more Liberated
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Become more aware · Heal · Experience more pleasure · Feel more Liberated ·
My services
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Scar Remediation
Getting to know your body again and increasing sensation and pleasure after the body has experienced trauma and/or surgeries.
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Personal Geometry(TM)
A powerful methodology created by Ali Mezey that gives the body a language, using spatial relationships to communicate messages from the body about specific issues.
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De-armouring
Removing emotional and physical barriers that hinder pleasure and self-expression; allowing for a more authentic and empowered sense of self.
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Online SSE Coaching
Don’t live in the Albuquerque, NM area or prefer to learn from the comfort of your own home? No problem! There is a great deal we can do together via Zoom.
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Intensive
If you are curious about taking a deep dive to learn more about your body, healing, and pleasure, schedule a free consult to learn more! This would be 2 - 5 days together; several hours per day. You would come stay in a hotel/airbnb in Albuquerque or fly me to your city.
Testimonials
Client in Toronto, Canada
“My session with Jaiden was truly healing. I had the opportunity for an embodied experience of having a man show up with immense presence, attention, and care in a one-way touch container, free of expectation. I left the session feeling safe and seen, learning more about my body and wanting more. Thank you, Jaiden!”
Miles, Somatic Movement Educator & Bodyworker
“Jaiden's approach to scar work is detailed, holistic, flexible, and patient. Truly a joy to work with a practitioner willing to support me in both my ongoing physical process of scar integration and the accompanying multilayered project meeting and taking good care of all of myself - whatever might arise.”
EM, Santa Fe, NM
“Jaiden has a gifted touch and deep wisdom around pleasure, sex, and personal geometry. Since our time together, I have enjoyed increased orgasms (multiple, longer, more powerful). It’s been amazing. From Jaiden, I have learned a lot about my body’s ability to experience arousal, joy, and desire. Thank you, Jaiden!”
Evie, NM
“My experience working with Jaiden Love was revelatory. I was unfamiliar but very curious about Personal Geometry, and Jaiden was very attentive to my questions and made me feel comfortable and at ease throughout the session. He is intuitively skilled, I felt the tender and vulnerable parts of me were able to be witnessed and held with dignity. The session illuminated some things about my familiar patterns and attachment stories that I had yet to interface with in such a manner. I walked away with a sense of wonder and a new tool for integrating the unconscious.”
About Jaiden
All of my life, I have had a fascination with the human body, sexuality, and sex. And, since I was raised Catholic and lived in a small, white, farming community, sex was NOT something you talked about! To say the least, I grew up with a few issues around intimacy, boundaries, consent, etc. I would always talk about sex with friends…I would talk about the sex THEY were having, not my own. Gradually I was the person they were all coming to to talk about their bedroom “issues”. So, I got my Master’s in Counseling and thought I would help people that way. My experience with this type of somatic work is SO much more helpful than just talking, in my opinion.
So, here I am…
A trauma-informed trans guy who has training in Somatic Sex Education and Sexological bodywork. I am also a Reiki Master-Teacher, which gets woven into all of the work I do. As a healer, educator, and coach, I am adept at creating and holding a safe space for others to explore, learn, and do the inner work necessary for the growth they are seeking.
I work with anyone wanting to increase somatic (body) awareness, healing, and pleasure in their body…leading to living a more liberated life. I am especially committed to serving the LGBTQIA+ community with a focus on the Trans population.
“You yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.”
Values
Make a Difference
My commitment is to create and hold a safe enough container that inspires all of us to “show up” (in my personal and professional life). Show up and be radically vulnerable and authentic with ourselves and others. The introspection and somatic presence to become more aligned with ourselves is where it all begins. From a place of somatic presence, each of us will be able to explore with courage & curiosity where we may be limited from being able to live a full life.
Inner Wisdom
Each of us has our own guiding principles. I am not the expert with all of the answers. Rather, I create and hold a safe enough space to guide and inspire each person to tap into their own inner wisdom so they can take more steps towards living their Truth…with more pleasure.
Love
This value is a reminder to be gentle with ourselves and others by coming from a place of love vs coming from a place of our conditioning and/or trauma. Embracing our challenges and limiting beliefs with Love and compassion creates an opening for change and/or acceptance.
Liberation
My ultimate hope is for each person to have the courageous presence to do their personal work, moving closer to their own liberation to have a positive effect on the collective liberation of the Earth/world.
Time to take the first step towards a more liberated (sex) life!
**Ask me about package rates